Post Created 14 Aug 2011 09:16:49 AM

Heh heh.. Smlm balik kampung n our family discuss casually while wathing tv.. Talked about duit hantaran. The canopy. The cost of kenduri. The idea of putting food stalls. The need for baju lawa for bertunang. Langsir raya merangkap langsir tunang. Etc etc :p

When the time comes for guy's family to pay a visit to our home and ask for our hand in marriage, Ayah said he will not be putting any figure on his daughters and asked us (Ain n I) to agree on it with our partners. Obviosly this is to be done before the family datang.. Figure nye asal tak membebankan, Ayah said. Ayah said that most importantly, the guy need to inform his entourage regarding the figure. Ayah taknak die segan kalau pihak lelaki terkejut mahal sgt n ayah pulak jenis too proud n x meminta. He even said x kisah berapa2. (can u believe this guy? Bende ni nak main2!! Ayah, ayah, haha. Blm puas lg jd anak mak n ayah... :') ). Ayah cerita yang kat kampung sebelah, ade family letak 15k. Wakil yang menghantar terkejut n kata nnt nak discuss balik dgn lelaki nya. Surprisingly, the engagement never comes around. Oh sgt kecewa plis

Regarding the below post, i am segan to tell you guys that the arguement was immature n very biased. Hehehe. We are good now. I need to reinforce this to myself that a good man will let you be you, let you have your 'down' day and most importanly, i am acknowledging that he is a wise guy for asking nothing. Garang kot perempuan kalau PMS? Hahaha. So moral kepada perempuan pulak - if you can, just senyap je dulu kalau x puas hati. Anything you said will bite you bac so keep your cool. Plg perlu is consult your gurlfrens (purposely dieja begitu utk efek gedik). Give yourself a 24hrs break and kalau dah leh figure out your fact & defence, ajak the guy 'borak2'. Hehehe.. It will turn out good, inshaAllah